I have been fishing almost every night. However I am in winter mode. This means I am fishing the same spot every night at roughly the same time. There is only so many times I can write I caught seven fish or one fish at the same place. So instead of writing that I thought I would write about some of the things that have been on my mind. Most of these are just thoughts others could be classified as rants. This first paragraph will be the heading of all these "editorials" Tonight's subject is solitude and fishing alone.
I make no
secret that I have no issues fishing by myself. I also have written many posts
about fishing with fishing buddies. I want to make it clear I enjoy fishing
with other people. This is not me being a recluse or snubbing my nose at
friends. Some of my best fishing memories are with my son or friends. This post is not in any way me saying I would
rather fish by myself for the rest of my life.
I just don’t mind fishing alone, that is all.
I know
people that do not like to fish by themselves. Sometimes they stay home because
they don’t have anyone to fish with. I am not bashing anyone by saying that, I
just do not understand this philosophy. Why anyone would choose not to fish
because they don’t have someone to go with is beyond my comprehension. I guess
they need the company for a long ride. Maybe they feel the need someone to see
the fish if they catch one. Maybe they feel it’s more fun to catch fish with
someone else (it is more fun). These are all justifiable arguments. Long rides
do suck, having someone see your catch does verify it, and yes two people
catching fish is more fun.
I just don’t
understand why these reasons would keep a person from doing things they enjoy
alone. I have given deep thought to this. I know I am not a hermit, I know I
enjoy company. I also know I need more alone time than the average person. I
would say it’s because I deal with a lot of people at work every day. That
theory is thrown out the window because I was like this as a kid. Even then I
would fish by myself. I’d take my dog for a walk just to “get away.”
So I don’t
worry about being alone for extended periods. I know this is surprising, but I
really do not get lonely. In 2010, I took a trip alone to Shenandoah National
Park. I was gone for eight days. Of course I missed my son, but he was with his
mom that week either way. I hiked every day for about ten miles. I watched deer
and stopped at Antietam on my ride home. The trip itself was a great vacation
Why do I
even bring up such a boring subject about whether I fish alone or not? Just
because people tell me all the time they would never take a trip alone. Girls
at work ask me all the time if I am afraid to camp by myself. Even my boss
tells me I should carry a gun.
A typical
Monday conversation at work will go like this
Girl-“What
did you do?”
Me – “I went
to Narragansett Thursday night fished till I couldn’t stand. Drove my car to a
spot I could sleep. Woke up about sunrise and fished all day.”
Girl- “Who
did you go with?”
Me “No one”
Then they
ask me if I got bored spending all that time by myself instead of asking the
more important question “how was the fishing?”
When I
have a day off during warm weather, I plan long distance marathon fishing
excursions. During the spring I went to Wachusetts Reservoir a couple times. I
drove to the Outer Cape to trout fish Nickerson State Park. Of course I did
some all-nighters sleeping in Narragansett this fall. When driving so far away I
like to make the trip as worthwhile as possible. Since gas is outrageous, I
make a whole day of it. Sometimes I am gone from sun up till way past sundown.
Honestly, I know very few people that enjoy fishing for eight to twelve hours.
So instead of convincing someone to go, I just go alone.
It works out
more often than not. When I went to Nickerson, I caught one trout and one small
pickerel in five hours. I left and headed home. I decided to stop and fish a
pond along the way. I caught twenty six trout there. It would have been very
hard to convince anyone to try that pond after 5 hours of almost nothing. Going
alone means you make decisions that only affect yourself.
Last winter
while fishing for stripers, I would go for a couple hours even if the fish
weren’t biting if I was alone. I went many times with a friend and he was
always ready to leave before me. I would give in after ten minutes and take off
after only an hour or so. Since this spot is about 20 minutes from home but we
usually got in traffic, I spent as much time driving as I did fishing. One
night it was cold, raw and wet, I decided to go alone because of the weather.
Dave was fishing there and we got talking and lost track of time. After two and
a half hours we only had one fish each. We were working our way back to our
cars ready to leave, then they really turned on. We both caught over ten fish.
Dave caught at least three keepers and I got one 31 inches while using my trout
rod. The point of the story is, if I went with my friend, I’d have been home an
hour and a half before the fish even started hitting.
One last
example, when I go to New Hampshire alone, I have to deal with a three hour
drive each way. To be honest the ride there I am jacked up and it flies by. The
ride home is tough. I stop at the rest area sixty miles from the MA/NH border
and buy a couple sodas. I never drink caffeine, so I get high from the soda, at
least enough to keep me awake. When I go
to New Hampshire by myself, I spend the whole day going from pond to pond. I
will get up around five am and fish till the fish stop hitting flies after
dark. To me this is a great day, but I couldn’t even convince my son to do
that. When he goes up with me, we do a lot more hiking. We will climb a
mountain or hike to a waterfall. This is also great and I can enjoy mountain
top views for hours. Two different types of trips, both great, just different
memories.
So I guess
the point of this post is just to separate the two points of view of spending
time alone fishing or in the woods or needing someone to go with. I guess part
of it is feeling comfortable alone. At many places I go, if I got hurt there
would be little help for hours. The surf in the middle of the night can be a
desolate place. I also think part of it is confidence. You need confidence in
yourself to sleep in the woods for a couple days or fish big waves.. You need
to know what you are doing (how to set up a tent, pack a back pack, stay dry,
etc.) You only get that confidence from experience. I also think some of it is
being male. I know girls that tell me they would be scared to be alone in the
woods. I guess I see there point. Yet I see girls jogging alone in Providence
after dark a lot and I think cities would be scarier than any fuzzy black bear.