I had to be out of my house by October 1 for the developer to take over. It was a stressful and time consuming month from the beginning of September intil October. It turned out to be a pointless timeline. My house is not sold yet because it is still in probate.
During those three weeks as I said before, I'd go home on days that I closed at work. I'd box stuff up. Then on the following day when I opened at work Laurie would meet me at my house and we would fill our cars with boxes and bring them to her house. I obviously had a lot of stuff to go through. Besides my stuff which includes many hobbies, I had to go through the stuff of my mom and dad that we never threw away when they passed. This included two closets that had been not touched for thirty years.
Also, my son's room was still there so I had to give his mother whatever was worth saving. If you've moved before you know that it isn't just stuff you think you need to take but also stuff that you know you can't part with. I am the opposite of a hoarder but I knew anything I left was going to get bulldozed so I had to be mindful that this was my only chance to save anything worth keeping.
Once at Laurie's, I organized to the point of OCD. I had shoe boxes full of photos, postcards I collected as a kid, camera equipment, and a lot more in boxes. I did not want to waste space with stuff I didn't want. I also didn't want to move anything a second time that I'd never use or look at. Last Friday during a rainy day off while Laurie was away I spent eleven hours just organizing. This included everything from photos, loose fishing gear, music on the computer, postcards, and finding the deed to my car. It was a long day and at 7:30 pm I stopped for the night and ate supper.
Those paragraphs are a long introduction into something I learned...when I am not moving from selling my house, I have more free time than I had realized. We all get in the habit of getting out of work, watching some tv, and going to bed. I was in a rut like that.
However, if I had all of that time to pack boxes, drive to my house three or four days a week, or spend hours sorting through photos, then finding time to write an email or blog post really isn't that hard.
This realization has had some great benefits.While I've been fairly consistant working out the last nine months, over the last three weeks I have been even better. I find it easy to squeeze in a twenty minute workout now. I have the time. Sometimes, Laurie and I will eat supper and watch a show. After the show, I'll head downstairs and lift weights for twenty minutes to a half hour. This is absolutely perfect for a diabetic. These workouts burn off some of the sugar or carbs I ate. As my doctor said, let your muscles do the work for you. Other nights after supper, we have been walking the neighborhood. It is a large neighborhood and we walk by the Halloween (and soon Christmas decorations). The walk is 1.8 miles. And again, it just feels like I have more free time than I thoguth.
The day I worked eleven hours on projects was brutal. I was mentally burned. I had a huge list and I wanted to get it over with. However, that too taught me to be efficent. That day I had no choice. I had stuff in boxes that I wanted to clean up. However, now that is done, instead of letting chores or emails build up, I'm finding the spare ten minutes to get things done.
While this doesn't have a lot lot to do with southern New England Outdoors, it does mean (now that packing is over) I have time to write. I have time to walk (even after dark). I have time to be productive. These are all good things.


