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Monday, May 27, 2013
Don't take it for granted
This week I
had a death in the family. One of my first cousins left us. To keep the privacy
of my family, I won’t mention his name or get into specifics about his job. He
was only 48 years old. He didn’t drink much, didn’t smoke and wasn’t
overweight. As far as anyone knew, he didn’t have any medical conditions. He
also had a medical degree. As you can imagine, his passing was a complete
surprise to our entire family.
My cousin
was extremely smart. He was very funny and had a great personality. He was
caring, a great son, and a family man. He wrote a couple of books and loved to
travel. We were not close. He lived in Lexington, MA, a town I visit on
occasion because of the Revolutionary War history. Because of our mutual
respect for history and the outdoors we should have been closer. He had
qualities that I very much respect. He was very passionate about many things.
As passionate as I am about fishing, he was about family history. Another
quality that I appreciate was his lust for knowledge. He always learning and
researching new things. His passing is certainly my loss as I could have
learned and shared many stories from him.
I am happy
to say he enjoyed life. He had a very successful career. He was smart and
enjoyed living. He and his wife took a trip to Europe last year. They travelled
quite a bit and went to Red Sox games. There is never anything good coming from
a loss of a relative, but at least his family can take comfort in that he had a
very happy life.
This of
course made everyone in our family question our own mortality. If death could
happen to what we considered the brightest, most successful clean living one of
us, who also happened to be in the medical field, then what does it say for
everyone else. The common theme at the wake was “enjoy it now because you never
know when your time is up”
Probably
because my mom died so young, I have lived by the code for most of my life. I
don’t abuse my body (smoke, drugs, or excessive drinking), however I don’t
exercise as much as I should. I do try to enjoy everyday. I try not to sweat
the small stuff and realize I can’t change the big stuff.
What I have
always tried to do from a young age is to “live in the moment”. As I have said
before, if I fish five days in a row, I don’t take them for granted. I fish so
much because it is what I love to do. I don’t want to be in a senior center
someday saying “ I loved being outside, why didn’t I do it more often” I assume I will have regrets just like
everyone else, I just want them to be small ones I can live with.
When I went
on the big trip in 2010, I managed to fit 6 of the ten places I most want to
visit on m
y bucket list on that trip. It was sort of irresponsible to go for almost
two months. I was out of work and maybe the mature thing was to keep the money
in the bank. I absolutely don’t regret going. The scenery and the animals were
memories I will have branded in my memory (and on cd) for the rest of my life.
DJ was fourteen. That is the perfect age to remember everything, but also
strong enough to carry a backpack, hike ten miles, and still consider your dad
your best friend. We had the best time ever.
My best friend and I at the Grand Canyon |
I have
realized I will never be rich. I work hard at my job, but I am not career
oriented. I certainly “work to live”, not “live to work”. I am at peace with
this. I spend a chunk of my workday (while washing windows or other mundane
parts of my job) deciding where I will fish after work. I also blow a decent
percentage of my paycheck on gas driving to fishing destinations. So if you
come visit me at my house and you see the rip in the carpet at the front door,
you will know that my carpet was not replaced because I used the money to go
fly fishing in New Hampshire the week before.
This leads
me to my other four spots on my travel bucket list (along with other new places
I want to visit). I may never get to them. Because of fishing (and driving)
every day, I am not saving as much of my disposable income as I probably
should. Whenever I feel the need to get away, I go to New Hampshire for the
weekend. So I accept that if I don’t get to Glacier National Park it is my own
fault. I choose to fish everyday instead of being bored for a year to have a
one week fantastic vacation. Again, no
regrets.
When I die,
I want people to smile when they hear my passing. I want the first thing they
think of to be “he loved his life”. I want them to remember how much we
laughed. I want them to know my son was the most important person to be in my life.
I want them to know I loved my parents very much. Instead of dwelling on their
passing, I can smile about the good times and great childhhood.
There is no
doubt that people will say “he loved to fish”. This is true of course. When
they wonder why I would fish almost every day, try to understand that sitting
in the house on a nice day feels like a complete waste of time to me. I can sit
for hours and not catch a carp, but put me on my couch for ten minutes on a
seventy degree day and I will get up and start pacing like a caged animal.
I love the
outdoors. I want it protected. If I had my way we would have another twenty
national parks. I know people will talk about how much I love New Hampshire.
They will talk about my love of hiking. Hopefully there will be a chuckle by
those that cannot understand why I would rather sleep in a two person tent than
a king size bed (absolutely true; if I win the lottery I will travel for weeks
at a time, but I doubt I will ever see the inside of a motel room unless I’m
with someone that insists)
So as you
can see by the 1112 words so far, I have been thinking a lot about death
because of my cousin. If I die tomorrow, then just smile for me. I have lived life to the fullest and have no
regrets. If I live another forty years, I hope to make everyday as enjoyable
and positive as I can.
There are
two things we can all learn from my cousin even if you never met him:
1. You never know when your time is up.
2. Have as much fun as you can, ENJOY
LIFE
The other four places on my bucket list:
Yosemite/ giant Sequoias
The National Park on St Johns, Virgin IslandsGlacier National Park
San Juan Islands, Washington
p.s.s.
I will be seeing the inside of a motel room the second week of June since
Laurie and I will be visiting Niagara Falls for five days.
Sunday, May 19, 2013
Big Carpin' and a little Toggin'
22 pound carp |
Thursday:
I went carp
fishing with a friend of mine Thursday at a good spot for big mirror carp (where
I got my 26 pounder). The sun was out and we didn’t know what to expect from
the carp. We both knew there were lots of carp in the area, but that does not
guarantee they will hit. We arrived at about 9:45. By ten o’clock I had my
first runner. It was a twenty two pounder. We thought we might be in for a
great day. Then the rods went silent for the next two hours.
After that
we had a little rush of three carp in 90 minutes (that is hot and heavy in the
carp fishing world). I caught another fish that weighed about 16 pounds.
Dave also
got a sixteen pounder. However his other fish was much bigger. When he hooked
it, he thought he had a good fish. Then seeing it in the water he thought low
20’s. Then it breached the surface and it looked like a gold finback whale.
When he got it in, it weighed 28 pounds. That is the largest carp I have ever
had the pleasure to net. We took a bunch of pictures with his new camera lens.
They are the best carp fishing photos I have ever taken. I felt lucky to capture
the moment of such a beautiful fish with such a nice camera.
He didn’t
get any more hits after that. We fished for almost four hours. The number of
fish caught was low, but I got my third twenty pound mirror in a week and Dave
caught a 28 pounder, so, it sure as hell was a successful outing.
Friday:
I woke up
without a plan. That is usually a bad thing since I usually mope around and
waste time until I figure out something to do. That is exactly what I did. I
got up about 7:30, ate breakfast and
First tautog |
I put my
carp gear back in the car and looked for my trout gear. I couldn’t find my
trout tackle box, so I crossed that idea off the list.
I checked
the tide and high was about 2 pm. So I put my 8 foot surf rod in the car and
decided to try for a tautog. Catching a tatoug is on my “to do” list for 2013.
I’m pretty sure I had never caught one. Most saltwater fishermen start by
bottom fishing. I’ve only used chunks a couple times. As for using sea worms I
think the last time I did that, I was under 14 years old. (I have used squid
for scup a few times though) So for a lot of people catching tautog might be
easy. For me it was a new challenge.
I bought
some sea worms at Quaker Lane. They said the worms would be more effective this
time of
Bait stealing choggie |
I casted out
and repeatedly got my bait stripped off the hook. If I casted way out into the
channel, I wouldn’t get anything. If I casted close, I didn’t get anything. In
the middle area from forty feet to a hundred feet, by the time the bait hit the
bottom it was gone.
Finally, I
got lucky and set the hook and something actually pulled back. After a spirited
fight, I landed a 14 inch tautog. I took some pics and let it go. Thinking that
all these misses were small tautog, I went up to my car and got some size 6
freshwater hooks. I put one on with a piece of seaworm. With the smaller hook,
I did catch fish. Unfortunately, they were not tautog but 4-6 inch choggies.
They turned out to be the bait stealers. After half a dozen choggies, I was
done. Theres nothing more boring than reeling in a four inch fish on a surf
rod.
I’m pumped I got a tautog. I have no idea how it
got to the seaworm before all those choggies. Tautog fight like hell. I can’t
believe how much fight a 2 pound fish can give on a surf rod. When I got it in, there was excitement and
relief. I’m glad I can cross it off my “to do” list. I will probably fish for
them after work today to finish up my sea worms. After that, I won’t be going
back in the foreseeable future. If I had someone who knew what they were doing
to go with, and they knew a consistent spot without choggies, I’d be in.
However if I’m going to bottom fish alone, at least for now, it’s going to be
for carp. Maybe this summer I’ll give them another shot With teeth like these, its a good thing they don't get very big |
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Another twenty pound mirror falls for my bait
I have been
carp fishing a lot this week. Catching a personal best has gotten me fired up.
I went striper fishing earlier in the week, but there has been a small window
of bad evening tides. I’m sure fish could be caught, but since the tides were
not ideal, I blatantly used that as an excuse to go carp fishing.
The last two
nights I tried a spot I had never fished before. I knew it held carp but did
not know anything else about it. It was on a river and shore access was quite
good with a lot of shoreline. Also, I didn’t know the layout of the bottom. Was
it deep? Would I get caught on the bottom on every cast? I went in blind and
decided to figure it out on my own.
On Sunday
night I hooked up with two carp. They were seven and fifteen pounds. I fished about
2 hours and was quite happy with the results. Also, I did not feel any hang ups
on the bottom. So I thought it was a productive night.
On Monday I
went back, I fished the same spot as the night before. After about 45 minutes I
caught a very long but skinny five pounder. Hey, I’ll take it. Right after
sunset as I was contemplating leaving I saw my rod bounce. I walked over to it.
The line started to tighten up, but it was swimming off to the side. I set the
hook. The fish took off on the longest run I have ever seen from a carp. I was
afraid I would lose all my line so I started following down the bank. I also
tightened my drag some, but it must have taken forty yards.
After the
initial run it was a tug of war. I was using 8 foot surf rods and my reel was
spooled with twenty pound Berkley Big Game. I knew I had a good fish. I also
know that river fish are extremely strong compared to their lake living
brothers. So I had no idea if I had a monster fish or one with a Napoleon
complex. After a few minutes I saw that
it was fairly long but did not have that oversized “gut” some carp have. I got
it in the net and I weighed it. Twenty pounds. This is the second twenty pound
mirror I’ve gotten this week. Before this year, my largest mirror was seventeen.
Of course I
let it go, and by that time it was dark enough to leave. I am almost sad the tide is coming back
around. Instead of going on an adventure this week on my days off, I might just
carp fish morning till night. Even without twenty pound fish, I have really
enjoyed carping this year much more than trout or largemouth bass fishing. I
suppose if I have a really good night striper fishing this week, I’ll put carp
on the back burner. If I don’t have a good striper night, I will be thinking “I
could be carp fishing right now.”
Sunday, May 12, 2013
A Fishing
tribute to my mom
It seems
like everything I have read this week was a tribute to someone’s mom. The
Fisherman’s editorial this week was one, along with a couple other pieces I
have read. I’m not writing this to be with the “in crowd”. After reading these
essays, it got me thinking about my mother and our time fishing…so I write.
As many of
you may know, my mother died when I just turned seventeen. She died on her
birthday the summer between my junior and senior year of high school. Without
question my mother was my best friend. I was without a doubt a mama’s boy. In
February, the year that she passed she had a heart attack. That whole spring
while she was recovering (so we thought) we’d spend hours talking about the Red
Sox. Since she was stuck in the house, this was our main common interest.
Before that
difficult year we shared a lot of great memories outdoors. Many nights we would
go for a ride in the 1978 Suburban and look for animals around dusk. We’d drive
by the farms in North Attleboro, Plainville and Cumberland. Rarely did we see any;
occasionally we’d see a skunk. More often than not, we would just see the cows
and horses. Looking back on it, the animals were not important. What was
important was the bonding time between mother and son.
Although I
wonder about the Nature vs. Nurture argument, there can be no doubt that my mom
loved the outdoors and fishing. Whether I was destined to love fishing or it
was ingrained in me by my mom, I am not sure. I do know we spent many days
together fishing.
She took me
fishing from the time I could hold a fishing pole. I caught my first fish at
age three at a spot guaranteed to give up some sunfish.
One story
she told me that I do not remember, but must have taught me a lifelong lesson
was: When I was very young, we went fishing and my mom started catching fish. I
got jealous and started being a little brat. My mom wanted me to know what it
was like to lose so she continued catching tons of fish. Considering I don’t
remember this, I must have been young and probably could not cast very well.
After I whined about it, I don’t know if I took a slap to the ass ( yes I grew
up with the occasional spanking and I don’t wake up with nightmares about my
childhood) or if she let me cry myself to sleep. I do know ever since, I have
learned not to be a sore loser. Lesson learned mom.
My mom used
a cheap baitcasting reel without a levelwind. She said it was what she grew up
using. My mom’s idea of fishing was to sit on a shoreline drowning worms on the
bottom. She could patiently sit for hours and if she didn’t get anything it was
okay. She was quite content with this style of fishing (she would have made an
excellent carp fishermen, because we spend a lot of time waiting for that one
fish).
This is the
one thing that I would have disagreed with my mom about. Although I am okay
with the occasional skunking, I try to do everything in my power to find them
and catch them. I always want to catch new species or learn new techniques.
It’s quite clear there is a line between loving fishing (mom) and being
obsessed with it (me). She also had two sons to raise and a husband to cook
supper for. So obviously fishing was a hobby not a priority.
I often
wonder how much fun we would have had fishing after I got older. She would be
68 if she were alive today. In the 20 years since her passing what could we
have accomplished together? She never caught a fish on a lure. When she went
saltwater fishing, she used sea worms on the bottom. In her life she caught two
trout.
It would
have been awesome to be the teacher and repay her for all the time I was the
student. I would have loved to show her how to catch stripers. It would have
been amazing to photograph my five foot tall mother holding a twenty pound
carp. I would have gotten so much enjoyment watching her catch new species or
learn new ways to catch them. She would have liked it too.
The last
couple years of fishing together we started using shiners for bass. Before
that I am not kidding…worms on the bottom. We had some success. One summer
after I started using lures, we were at Herring Pond in Bourne. There were
pickerel in the shrubs along the shoreline. I caught a couple on topwater lures
and I told my mom to try. She kept casting the lure near the shrubs but the
pickerel wouldn’t touch it. She’d give me my rod back and I’d catch one. This
went on for an hour, she couldn’t get one and as soon as I’d get my rod back I
would catch one. It was like she was jinxed that day. By the end we were both
laughing so hard, we almost peed ourselves.
Although it makes for a funny story it does have a lesson. She was open
to catching fish in other ways she just needed someone to show her. I wish I
would have gotten the chance.
She was a
great mom and was taken from her husband and two sons much too early. However I
was very fortunate to have known her for seventeen years. Because of her, I am
completely an outdoors person. She taught me valuable life lessons. She
answered all my questions and we had some great conversations. Although she had
more sicknesses than anyone I ever met, she never complained. She was the
toughest person I ever knew. Conversely, if I sniffled in the middle of the
night, she would worry herself silly that I might be coming down with
something. She was a kinder friendlier
person than I am, although I inherited my loner attitude from her. Where ever you are, Happy Mother’s Day mom, I
love you.
Proud to be
an American, prouder to be Mary Pacelli’s son
Nick
Thursday, May 9, 2013
Personal Best Carp Today!
Went carp fishing today at a lake known for large mirror carp. I sat through three hours of rain (five hours total) and landed two fish. The first fish was a fifteen pounder. This may be the only time in my life to be disappointed by a fifteen pounder. Also it gave a terrible fight, surprisingly.
An hour later I hooked what I could tell what was a big fish. It fought nobly. Once it saw the net it took off and made three or four runs. It took about ten or so minutes to land it. I weighed it three times it was a legitimate twenty six pounds. It beat my old personal best by two pounds and my mirror carp best by nine. What a beautiful fish.
I caught both fish on unflavored field corn fished behind an oatmeal-bread- cornmeal method ball.
Here are a couple pictures of it.
An hour later I hooked what I could tell what was a big fish. It fought nobly. Once it saw the net it took off and made three or four runs. It took about ten or so minutes to land it. I weighed it three times it was a legitimate twenty six pounds. It beat my old personal best by two pounds and my mirror carp best by nine. What a beautiful fish.
I caught both fish on unflavored field corn fished behind an oatmeal-bread- cornmeal method ball.
Here are a couple pictures of it.
Carolina on my Mind
Every year
during Rhode Island’s Free Fishing Weekend, the DEM puts about 100 golden trout
in one pond in the state. This year, the chosen pond is Carolina Trout Pond in
Richmond. I took Saturday off from work in the hopes of getting one. I did not
see any goldens caught. The entire time I was there, fifty people lined the
shoreline. I only saw about fifteen trout caught. I managed two browns about a
foot long.
Really
wanting another shot at a golden trout, I went back again tonight Monday. I saw one golden trout caught by a teenager.
It was roughly five pounds. What a beautiful fish. I did not land any goldens,
but I did manage ten trout. I caught seven bows and three browns. They were
caught on Powerbait, Roostertail, and a casting bubble/fly. I got two that were
about 17 inches. There were about ten other guys fishing and I saw about five
other trout caught including the golden trout.
My days off
this week are Wednesday and Thursday. I decided to go down to Carolina again. I
arrived about 10 am. I went back to the spot that I had the most luck on Monday.
It is away from the crowd but weedy. I used Powerbait on one rod and and
alternated my other rod between lures and a casting bubble fly combo. Right away I caught a rainbow on Powerbait.
For the next couple hours I could only hits on the Powerbait. Then it started
to rain. The crowd left the less weedy section of the pond.
I decided to
move since I would have the less weedy section to myself. To make a long story
short, I started catching fish on both the Powerbait and the casting
bubble/fly. I could not convince any fish to chase any other lures. I tried
spinners, spoons, shads, 1 inch grubs, and Rapalas. They would not touch
them. I ended up catching quite a few.
Half were on the fly, the rest on Powerbait. Four were browns, the rest
rainbows. The biggest was 17 inches. It was a fun day fishing.
In case you
go:
Carolina
trout pond is sort of shaped like an hour glass. There is a narrow section in
the middle. The top of the pond is larger and longer than the smaller southern
end. The southern part of the pond is shaped like an onion. The whole thing is
probably about five acres. It’s a skinny
pond so with good casts the whole pond can be covered. There is no need to put
any watercraft in.
The top of
the pond is very weedy. There are open spots and casting a lure is possible.
The southern end is clear. There are very few weeds. Because of this, the
majority of fishermen fish this end and the narrow area. When I arrived at 10
am, there were eight retired guys fly fishing this small area.
I have a
theory on why the trout will only hit flies and Powerbait. This pond is heavily
pressured. You will never fish this pond alone. Fifteen minutes after the rain
stopped Wednesday, three or four cars pulled in. I believe, the trout are so
spooked and stressed; getting them to chase lures is difficult. On the other
hand, Powerbait once casted sits quietly. Flies land quietly. Even though my
casting bubble makes a lot of noise, it casts so far, that by the time it’s in
front of a fishes face, the water is already quiet.
Lastly, the
thought of catching a golden trout would seem like a good reason to make this
trip. They are difficult to catch. I believe a lot of luck is going to required
to catch one. There are so many other trout, it’s tough to weed through them to
get a golden.
Northern Water Snake
Was sitting near this guy in the rain. As soon as the sun came out, he found a rock to sun himself on
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Narragansett Bay Tonight
After carp
fishing all day and then eating supper, I went striper fishing. I met Dave in
the Upper Bay. He got there before me and was on his back from scouting a
number of spots. He had only caught one fish, but it was a keeper. We fished
for a few minutes and decided the tide was low enough to fish a great low tide
spot. We put on waders and walked into the water up to our thighs.
Within a few
minutes both of us had landed a near keeper. I got mine on a bucktail jig and
Dave on a Zoom fluke. After that we each caught a few more fish. They seemed to
not be keying on any one lure. We had hits on the bucktail, zoom fluke, small
swimmer, sand eel imitation and a Hogy.
The biggest
news of the night was not how many we caught but how many fish were around. I had
a bunch of misses and Dave had a few hits. We saw many fish swirling and
splashing on the surface. We also saw school after school of menhaden. Although
our biggest fish were just under keepers, we saw some fish that seemed much
bigger. After a slow start things seem to be getting really hot in Narragansett
Bay.
My friend Paul got a twenty pounder yesterday
While I was
catching a sucker and a fallfish and Dave was putting on a clinic on how to
land white suckers, our friend Paul landed a beautiful 20 pound mirror carp.
The three of us went fishing on the Blackstone River in northern Rhode Island.
It seemed like a very good day to go carp fishing. It didn’t work out that way.
The only carp caught was by Paul. It was a great fish that put up a noble
fight. After many pictures, it was set free.
As we were
leaving Dave said to Paul “Well Paul you got the big one today” Paul is so
humble he responded “ Yeah, I just wish we all could have gotten one” The
amazing thing is he meant it!
King of the "Trash Fish"
My "trophy" white sucker |
This post is
simply an excuse to put some pictures of what many would call trash fish. Today
I managed to catch a carp (not pictured about 7 pounds), a sucker and a fallfish. I managed to catch all
three species today. I don’t care what I catch so when I caught fallfish and
whites suckers while targeting carp, well, I was happy as a clam. That said,
catching fallfish was fun, but dealing with them steal my bait made me realize
why they can be referred to as “pests”
One of Dave's suckers |
Fallfish |
Animal Sightings
The fishing
was only okay for April, but I saw some cool animals. On my day at Nickerson
State Park I saw a loon and even cooler, I saw a big beautiful coyote. I got a
couple pictures as it was trotting away. I was in the car and it crossed the
street in front of me.
At the
pickerel I pond I have been fishing, right along Route 1, there are a pair of
otters living there. They are pretty inquisitive. One of them has come up to me a couple times.
I never realized how big river otters are. They are at least 3 feet long not
including the tail. They are so graceful in the water. As with the coyote, I
got some pictures but it’s not like they are going to become the cover of an
Wild America calender.
It didn't end in April, I saw a mink and muskrat on the Blackstone River yesterday
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